Lately, I’ve been thinking about this whole relationship thing between girls and boys my age.
To sum it all up, 15% are in a relationship, 25% want a relationship, 20% like someone, 5% are crushing on some k-pop star, 15% don’t care, and the last 20% are just waiting for someone to come and sweep them off their feet. (Warning: these statistics are 99.9% false)
Cue music! (Maybe I’ll make this a regular thing from here on out…)
Ok, back on topic! So about relationships…heck, we’ll scrap em off and just start talking about WHY the single life is so awesome.
1. You have no boundaries. When you’re in a relationship, you’re automatically expected to be in love with only one person, ie boyfriend/girlfriend. But, remember, you’re SINGLE. You can meet whoever the heck you want. Don’t need a guy to tell you who you can see and who you can’t! Being single, to me, means that I don’t have to like anyone or, heck, I can fancy all the boys in the world and not be criticized for being a douche-bag player! So ha! That’s single life for you er… (insert name of famous person known for cheating)
1.5 I can stop and stare and fantasize.
(If I were her, I’d be crushing on each of those wonderful men who taught me such wonderful love lessons)
2. More me-time. When you’re in a relationship, you gotta be stuck hanging out with that significant other like 24/7 cuz you know, you “love” each other so much you can’t separate. But, being single, I don’t have to worry about having to be with my lover when I don’t want to! More time for k-drama, homework, and me. Less time for thinking about how infatuated and in loooove I am.
3. Less drama. Think about all the emotional heartbreak you get in a relationship. Better yet, just watch any k-drama and multiply the angst by 3000x, because you’re livin’ in it. The butterflies in your stomachs, the heavy hearts, the tears after the break-up, the depression afterwards… Yea, if you just stayed single, you wouldn’t have to go through all the pain.
“I’m glad to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.”
Nice sentiment but… some people get devastated after a break-up. And some idiots actually hurt themselves because of the loss.
4…I’m running dry, but … I don’t know, I just feel more open to new things, more clear-headed and sane when I’m single.
Ok sure, I do like the feeling of liking someone and being liked back and going places with the one I like and holding someone’s hand, and all those warm feelings. ahh memories~~ but I also sure do like being single.
This is random, but I can honesty say that I love all of Tony’s little cousins. THEY’RE SO CUTE AND NICE!! and… being single, I can like whoever I want (ok, maybe not someone else’s bf, but I can like any single man I want). I can go anywhere I want. And right now, I can tell you that I like being single. I like hanging out with my friends.
Heck, I’ll say it right now, I like that handsome choir boy
that I fantasize about every Sunday afternoon, I like that friend who always talks to me at night when I’m singing to “I’m a Loner”, I like that Gaksitaaaal and when he smiles, I squirm in heavenly delight, and I like that Jennamarbles who has a nice body! O_O I just .. did I just…
Bottom Line of the Day: Appreciate being single, or appreciate that significant other, because you never know when they’ll have to leave.
P.S: I am not in any way judging or talking bad about those in a relationship. This article was made purely for fun and out of boredom. I really do respect those who have been and are in a loving relationship. KEEP IT UP PEOPLE!